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Rope Join
Sep
14

Rope Join

Rope Join is for folks who are traditionally underrepresented in kink and their accomplices. Whether you’re rope-curious or a highly practiced Kinkster, there’s space for you as we build this community of skill share and support!

The next rope join is Sunday 9/14 12-4pm at Glitterbox in Homestead.

$10-20 suggested donation. NOTAFLOF.

Bring a water bottle, rope & shears if you have them, and maybe a yoga mat to sit on. Wear comfortable, flexible clothing. Consider dressing in layers.

Can you share a ride? Do you need a ride? Get connected in our Discord mutual aid channel! No rope? No problem! We have plenty to share.

Will we see you there?

Photo: @milkrope_ putting rope on @raesunshine_ by @peachpwuppyprince at last month’s rope join!

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September Slosh
Sep
26

September Slosh

a slosh is like a munch: a gathering of likeminded individuals linking up for community & conversation. but instead of a full restaurant & food only, we convene at a place with alcohol & drink! please note you do not have to imbibe at the slosh & we do highly encourage safe consumption & carpooling with a DD! if you need a ride, please join our discord (l!nk !n b!0) & hop into the ride sharing channel to help coordinate some options. there are a few bus stops near the venue as well for our fellow commuters.

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Swim Social
Aug
27

Swim Social

WEDNESDAY 8/27 4-8pm Bonus swim social @ Dormont | One last dip before season end - $8 admission payable via cash or card. This pool has a waterslide!

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Fetishwear Play Party
Aug
23
to Aug 24

Fetishwear Play Party

⛓️‍💥 WE WANNA SEE YOUR SEXY LITTLE OUTFITS ⛓️‍💥

Show out in leather, lace, mesh, PVC, latex, hoods, gloves, garters, corsets… but keep your bottoms on! Saturday 8/23 is Arrow’s next non-sexual play party. This is a great space for you to try out some kinks you’re curious about without the pressure of a potential hookup.

If you’re interested in attending, fill out your vetting form ASAP! First round of approvals will go out 8/13, after which you will be given a link to purchase your $35 ticket. As always, let us know if the cost is prohibitive.

Can’t wait to see you there!!

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T4T Rope
Aug
22

T4T Rope

September - December T4T rope night will regularly be held at the Steel Lighthouse studio on the third Friday of each month!

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Consent Roundtable
Aug
19

Consent Roundtable

We’re bringing back the consent roundtable ahead of this month’s play party!

WHAT TO EXPECT
* Doors at 6:15 for in person attendees, Discord meeting starts at the same time. Presentation at 6:30 sharp! If you are later than 7pm, attendance does not count.
* Role call - we will be recording who is in attendance starting at this session.
* Space for nuanced conversation around consent and autonomy
* Discussion of consent models
* Overview of Arrow Events’ code of conduct
* Explore & curate your personal consent model
* Q&A - anonymously submit questions to arroweventspgh@gmail.com
* Post-roundtable reflection questions

WHAT WE EXPECT OF YOU
* Attendance is required to have access to 2026 play parties
* We will host one more RT this year, and another in January
* Previous sensation tops - this includes you! Organizers will also be completing the homework.
* Virtual attendees - please turn on your camera or chime in during role call
* Attendance for most of the session - we understand this is a large chunk of time. We will share our presentation afterwards with registrants
* Completion of reflection form

Registration is live HERE
**ATTENDING A CONSENT ROUNDTABLE IS REQUIRED TO ATTEND 2026 PLAY PARTIES

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Rope Join
Aug
12

Rope Join

Rope Join is for folks who are traditionally underrepresented in kink and their accomplices. Whether you’re rope-curious or a highly trained kinkster, there’s space for you as we build this community of skill share and support!

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