Our Events
October Sober Social
🫖 Tuesday 10/28 - October sober social at Bantha, 7-9pm. Open to all! Free, please support our host venue by purchasing food or drink if you’re able.
PAKU: Stuffed Day One
Pittsburgh Area Kink Unconference is back & smaller than ever! An unconference is a gathering where the agenda is set by the attendees. Arrow Events will facilitate space for conversations, demonstration, or presentations on topics relating to kink, sexuality, relationships, and the like.
Doors open at 9 on Saturday, opening remarks at 9:30 & first time slot begins at 10am. Lunch break around 1pm, return for class 2-5pm. Go get dinner, then come back for a non-sexual play party 8pm-midnight!
Location shared after vetting approval & ticket purchase.
PAKU: Stuffed Day Two
Arrow will hold open space starting at 9am for aftercare, labbing and practice, conversation, stretching. Brunch spread will be available 10am-3pm. Closing circle at 3, after which attendees head home while volunteers and organizers stay for tear down.
Afternoon Delight Play Party
Join us on Sunday, 10/12 for the remedy to your Sunday scaries. We’ll provide space for non-sexual play and connection. Party goes 1-6pm. 🎃
Dress code is comfy, lazy Sunday vibes. Robes, nighties, pj sets. Bring your kink toy bag, an open mind & a snack or beverage to share. DM training by @whiskey.fm will be held on 10/8 and 10/9, it’s a great opportunity to get involved! Masking is encouraged, Covid testing is required.
We’ll have a St. Andrew’s Cross, suspension points, massage tables & more. Sanitation stations will be provided, please BYO supplies if you’re doing particularly messy play. Party safe word is Red.
✅ Vetting form is live now on Linktree. If you’ve been vetted for an Arrow play party in the last few months, check your email to bypass the vetting process for this event!
Tickets are $35, please reach out if that’s unmanageable & you want to come. Want to participate in ride sharing? Get connected in our Discord server!
Virtual DM Training
💥 Wednesday 10/8 and Thursday 10/9 - virtual DM training with whiskey. Content is the same both nights, choose which works best for you! Whiskey usually starts around 7pm, registration required!
Virtual DM Training
💥 Wednesday 10/8 and Thursday 10/9 - virtual DM training with whiskey. Content is the same both nights, choose which works best for you! Whiskey usually gets started around 7pm, registration required!
September Slosh
a slosh is like a munch: a gathering of likeminded individuals linking up for community & conversation. but instead of a full restaurant & food only, we convene at a place with alcohol & drink! please note you do not have to imbibe at the slosh & we do highly encourage safe consumption & carpooling with a DD! if you need a ride, please join our discord (l!nk !n b!0) & hop into the ride sharing channel to help coordinate some options. there are a few bus stops near the venue as well for our fellow commuters.
Rope Join
Rope Join is for folks who are traditionally underrepresented in kink and their accomplices. Whether you’re rope-curious or a highly practiced Kinkster, there’s space for you as we build this community of skill share and support!
The next rope join is Sunday 9/14 12-4pm at Glitterbox in Homestead.
$10-20 suggested donation. NOTAFLOF.
Bring a water bottle, rope & shears if you have them, and maybe a yoga mat to sit on. Wear comfortable, flexible clothing. Consider dressing in layers.
Can you share a ride? Do you need a ride? Get connected in our Discord mutual aid channel! No rope? No problem! We have plenty to share.
Will we see you there?
Photo: @milkrope_ putting rope on @raesunshine_ by @peachpwuppyprince at last month’s rope join!
Ties At The Tracks
🛤️ TIES AT THE TRACKS 🪢
Thursday, 9/11 4-8pm
Rain date Tuesday, 9/16 4-8pm
(Previously “walkies / outdoor rope”)
Swim Social
WEDNESDAY 8/27 4-8pm Bonus swim social @ Dormont | One last dip before season end - $8 admission payable via cash or card. This pool has a waterslide!
Fetishwear Play Party
⛓️💥 WE WANNA SEE YOUR SEXY LITTLE OUTFITS ⛓️💥
Show out in leather, lace, mesh, PVC, latex, hoods, gloves, garters, corsets… but keep your bottoms on! Saturday 8/23 is Arrow’s next non-sexual play party. This is a great space for you to try out some kinks you’re curious about without the pressure of a potential hookup.
If you’re interested in attending, fill out your vetting form ASAP! First round of approvals will go out 8/13, after which you will be given a link to purchase your $35 ticket. As always, let us know if the cost is prohibitive.
Can’t wait to see you there!!
T4T Rope
September - December T4T rope night will regularly be held at the Steel Lighthouse studio on the third Friday of each month!
Consent Roundtable
We’re bringing back the consent roundtable ahead of this month’s play party!
WHAT TO EXPECT
* Doors at 6:15 for in person attendees, Discord meeting starts at the same time. Presentation at 6:30 sharp! If you are later than 7pm, attendance does not count.
* Role call - we will be recording who is in attendance starting at this session.
* Space for nuanced conversation around consent and autonomy
* Discussion of consent models
* Overview of Arrow Events’ code of conduct
* Explore & curate your personal consent model
* Q&A - anonymously submit questions to arroweventspgh@gmail.com
* Post-roundtable reflection questions
WHAT WE EXPECT OF YOU
* Attendance is required to have access to 2026 play parties
* We will host one more RT this year, and another in January
* Previous sensation tops - this includes you! Organizers will also be completing the homework.
* Virtual attendees - please turn on your camera or chime in during role call
* Attendance for most of the session - we understand this is a large chunk of time. We will share our presentation afterwards with registrants
* Completion of reflection form
Registration is live HERE
**ATTENDING A CONSENT ROUNDTABLE IS REQUIRED TO ATTEND 2026 PLAY PARTIES
Rope Join
Rope Join is for folks who are traditionally underrepresented in kink and their accomplices. Whether you’re rope-curious or a highly trained kinkster, there’s space for you as we build this community of skill share and support!